Key takeaways
Thinking positively, visualising success and building knowledge can help, but genuine progress only occurs when you take action.
Successful people experience fear, doubt and uncertainty like everyone else, but they refuse to let those feelings determine their decisions.
Fear of failure and ridicule can keep property investors on the sidelines, particularly when they give too much weight to the opinions of people who do not share their goals.
Fear of success can lead to self-sabotage when your achievements exceed the level of wealth or success you feel comfortable maintaining.
Childhood messages about money can create a belief that you are undeserving of wealth, even after you have worked hard to earn it.
Debt itself should not automatically be feared. The real risks come from borrowing unwisely, buying the wrong assets or taking on commitments you cannot comfortably service.
Fear can be useful when it encourages better preparation, stronger financial buffers and more careful decision-making.
Personal and financial growth usually involves discomfort. Each time you act beyond your existing comfort zone, you expand what you are capable of doing.
Successful property investors learn to become comfortable with being uncomfortable while still managing risk intelligently.
You do not have to eliminate fear before moving forward. You simply need a sound strategy, appropriate guidance and the courage to take the next considered step.
Over the years I have seen many people think about getting rich, proclaiming affirmations, visualizing and meditating yet they don’t get rich.
Let’s be realistic... to get ahead in the real world you have to take action.
Why is it that most people don’t take action?
Sometimes it is a lack of knowledge, but more frequently it comes down to fear that stops people from living their dreams.
Note: Successful people tend to act despite their fears.
They’ve learned to harness their fears and use them to their advantage.
I understand that Tiger Woods keeps training, uses a coach and continues playing at the intensity he does, because of fear.
The fear of not being the best and that someone else may play golf as well as he does.
The most common reason people don’t getting involved in property investment is fear.
The fear of failure or that they will lose money or that people will ridicule them.
The key to success is not to let your fears scare you into inaction, but to use them to prepare you for action.
Apart from failure, let’s look at some other potential fears…
1. The fear of ridicule
You can’t do much about what other people say, but you can control how you react to it.
The people trying to stop you from achieving your dreams have probably lost the ability to do the same.
The only way they know how to build themselves up is to bring other people down.
Now that is sad …..but it’s not your problem.
No one has ever died of embarrassment, so tune out to the critics and focus on what you want to accomplish.
2. The fear of success
Surprisingly the fear of success can be almost as paralysing as the fear of failure.
It often follows on once you have conquered the fear of failure.
It is ironic that you work so hard to overcome the fear of failure and achieve success and then all of a sudden you become afraid that you won’t be able to maintain your success.
Yet I have seen this happen to many investors once they have grown a sizeable property portfolio.
Things seem to be going well and then they start feeling uncomfortable.
While there is no logical reason for this, we are all controlled by our own internal “financial thermostat” that sets our level of comfort.
Note: Yours is set to a particular level of success that you see yourself at with your self-image.
If you exceed that level of success you become nervous, you become fearful.
I have seen this fear sabotage the efforts of property investors because their inner thermostat just didn’t allow them to see themselves as successful.
In fact, they were so afraid of what might happen when they become successful so they subconsciously did things that keep them from being successful.
3. The fear of not being worthy
Many people fail to take action because they fear they don’t deserve wealth.
This also stems from the “financial “programming” they received in childhood.
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All those negative things that some well-meaning people said early in their lives.
Things like:
Don’t be greedy.
People like us don’t get rich.
What makes you think you can do that when others have failed?
I’ve also seen investors adults sabotage their wealth because they felt undeserving.
I must admit I have things I don’t need, yet I have them. After all, I want them, because I enjoy them and because I can afford them.
The difference is I feel I deserve everything I have because I have earned it.
4. The fear of debt
The fear of debt holds some investors back, however, debt shouldn’t be feared.
It’s the inability to service the debt or repay the loans that should be feared.
If you understand how to use debt wisely and if you know the difference between good and bad debt, there is nothing to fear about debt.
By the way…it is not necessary to get rid of all your fears to succeed.
Note: All rich and successful people have fears, doubts and worries. They just don’t let those feelings stop them.
That is a big difference: unsuccessful people have also fears, doubts and worries but they let those feelings stop them.
It is normal for your brain to bring up these fears.
Your mind is protecting you.
It is doing its job.
And acting despite your fears is going to be uncomfortable.
We all like living in our comfort zones because they are comfortable.
But if you want to move to a new level you have to break through your comfort zone.
I have never moved forward in any aspect of my life without being uncomfortable.
Your comfort zone may make you feel warm and fuzzy but it doesn’t allow you to grow.
Note: The only time you will grow is when you move outside your comfort zone.
If you think about it, every time you tried something new was is probably uncomfortable, but the more you did it the more comfortable it became.
If you stick and persevere you expand your comfort zone which means you can do more things comfortably.
What this means is that every time you are feeling uncomfortable instead of retreating back into your comfort zone, pat yourself on the back and say:
Hey this is great. I am moving forward and I am growing.
If you want to be a successful property investor, and if you truly want to be one of the wealthy, you are going to have to become comfortable with being uncomfortable.
