Key takeaways
Early wins can be dangerous because they're often the market's doing, not yours, so keep learning even after you succeed
Property investing is simple in concept but not easy in practice, which is why you need a strong team, not just good intentions
A clear long term goal matters more than which suburb you buy in first
Your income and your wealth rarely outgrow your own mindset and personal development
Delaying gratification, especially with buy now pay later culture normalising debt, is still one of the biggest wealth levers available
Fear and today's confusing headlines around rates and negative gearing can freeze good investors, but a sound strategy manages most of that risk
Failure isn't the opposite of success, it's part of the process, so don't let it stop you from trying again
Imagine getting a phone call from yourself 40 years ago, and being able to hand that younger version of you a shortcut through every expensive mistake you were about to make.
That's really what this article is.
I've been investing in property for over five decades now, and I've paid some big "learning fees" along the way.
The good news is that instead of letting those setbacks defeat me, I used them to get a little wiser each time, and that habit of picking yourself up, learning what you can and trying again is one of the real keys to long term success.
So to help you skip some of the pain I went through, here are the first eight of 16 things I wish someone had told me when I was starting out.
1. The value of education
When I started out, I honestly believed I knew enough to make it work.
I didn't, because like most beginners, I didn't know what I didn't know.
My first couple of deals went well, and looking back, that was almost the worst thing that could have happened.
Early wins make you think you're smarter than you are, when really I was just riding a rising market rather than displaying any genius of my own.
Thankfully I recognised that fairly early and set about getting properly educated, reading widely and seeking out mentors and advisors who'd already achieved what I wanted to achieve.
I still invest heavily in my own education today, and, if anything, I think it matters more now than ever, given how much noise and misinformation is out there.
2. Goal setting
So many investors buy a property or two in a suburb they happen to live in or think they understand, without ever deciding what they're actually trying to achieve or by when.
Said out loud like that, it sounds a bit mad, yet it's how most people approach the biggest financial decision of their lives.
You have to begin with the end in mind.
Tip: If you don't know where you're heading, any road can get you there just as easily as it can get you lost.
Jim Rohn put it well when he said that if you don't design your own life plan, chances are you'll fall into someone else's plan, and it's rarely much of a plan for you.
3. Create a property team
Because everyone has lived in a house or an apartment at some point, most people assume they understand property.
Investing in property might sound simple, but it isn't easy, and that's genuinely not just a play on words.
It takes real skill, and some of that skill needs to come from people who know more than you do.
Build a good team around you, including mentors and advisors, or what I like to call your brain trust.
And if you happen to be the smartest person in that group, that's usually a sign you're in trouble.
It's worth noting too that the team a beginner needed a decade ago looks a bit different to the team you need today, with things like new anti-money-laundering rules for real estate transactions and more complex trust structures following the recent budget changes now firmly part of the landscape.
4. Think rich, not poor
Deep down, most of us believe we deserve to be successful.
The trouble is your income rarely grows beyond your own personal development.
That's why developing the mindset and habits of successful property investors matters just as much as picking the right suburb.
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Here's another Jim Rohn quote that has stuck with me for decades: don't wish it were easier, wish you were better, and don't wish for fewer problems, wish for more skills.
5. Have an abundance mindset
To become successful, you’ll also need an abundance mindset.
What do I mean by that?
An analogy is to think of yourself as a cup.
If your cup is small you can only accumulate a small amount of money, any extra will spill over and you will lose it.
You simply cannot have more money than the size of your cup.
Instead, develop an abundance mindset in which your cup is big and deserving of being filled with success.
6. Delaying gratification
We've all felt the pull of that new pair of shoes, the latest phone, or a flashier car than we probably need.
These days it's not even a credit card doing the damage so much as buy now pay later apps, which have made instant gratification feel almost consequence free.
Of course it isn't free at all; it's simply borrowed money you'll pay for later, often with your future self footing the bill.
Tip: To become rich you must learn to delay gratification as wealth is the transfer of money from the impatient to the patient.
7. Overcome your fears
Fear is one of the most powerful emotions we have, and property investors feel plenty of it.
It can protect us, but it can also stop us from ever getting started because we label perfectly sound decisions as too risky.
Right now that fear is being amplified by a genuinely confusing news cycle, with talk of negative gearing changes, interest rate speculation and endless conflicting headlines all landing in investors' feeds at once.
With a sound strategy and the right team around you, most of that risk can be managed, and much of that fear can be put into proper perspective.
The real skill is learning to feel a little uncomfortable in the beginning and moving forward anyway.
8. Don't let failure hold you back
Everyone makes mistakes, myself very much included.
What separates highly successful investors from everyone else isn't that they avoid failure; it's that they don't let it stop them.
They get back up and try again, usually a little wiser for the experience.
Most people spend their energy worrying about things that will probably never happen, and all that does is keep them from ever taking action.
Save your worrying for when there's actually something worth worrying about, and put the rest of that energy into moving forward.
These eight lessons cost me time, money and more than a few sleepless nights to learn, and I'd love for you to get the benefit of them without paying the same price.
Pick one or two that resonate most and start applying them today, because that alone will put you further ahead than you were yesterday.
I’ll share another 8 ideas I wish I had known earlier in the next couple of days.
