Aussies with masses of debt may struggle to find love according to new research by Finder.com.au
A recent Finder survey revealed that on average, Aussies would refuse to date someone if their personal debt exceeded $59,758 (outside their mortgage).
One in four Aussies (24%) wouldn’t tolerate debt of up to $1,000 outside a mortgage, while 15% would be turned off if their love interest carried between $1,000 and $5,000 worth of debt.
Kate Browne, personal finance expert at Finder, said that debt can be a major deal-breaker in the modern dating world.
“Love and money don’t always mix, especially when debt is involved. It’s hard enough to keep your own personal finances in check, let alone having to worry about someone else’s.
“The ‘money talk’ is best avoided on the first date. But if things start heating up, it’s important to have an open discussion about your finances, even if it’s the last thing on your mind.
“You don’t want your partner’s debt to prevent you from eventually buying a home or getting ahead financially,” Browne said.
The average male admitted they'd be willing to look the other way for up to $64,000.
Women would only do the same for up to $56,000.
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Gen Y would turn down a potential suitor if their debt exceeded $43,000, whereas gen X would be willing to accommodate up to $77,000 on average.
Browne said that debt doesn’t necessarily spell disaster in a potential partner.
“For many Aussies who are out there dating, debt can be a red flag. But some types of debt are better than others.
“A student loan is considered to be good debt because it can help an individual to get ahead in life. You should also consider your partner’s strategy for getting rid of debt. They may repay it in a matter of months with clever budgeting.
“That being said, you should try and steer clear of gambling debt, or a history of defaults,” warned Browne.
The most common forms of debt Aussies are carrying include a mortgage (30%), credit card (27%), student loan (15% ), personal loans (13%) and buy now pay later (13%).
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Source: Finder, December 2019
- Reduced chance of home loan approval. When applying for a mortgage as a couple, your financial history will come under the microscope. If your partner has a history of debt and a poor credit score, the pair of you may be rejected (even if your own financial record is squeaky clean).
- Limited access to joint finance. Many couples manage their finances with a joint credit card or a joint loan. If one applicant carries debt, you may find you’re rejected on this basis.
- You may be held responsible. If your partner were to die with credit card debt, this may affect you if they’ve borrowed against joint assets you hold together, like a car or home. Lenders may choose to sell off these assets to cover the outstanding balance. However, this is generally only the case with secured debt, rather than unsecured debt.