With the New Year nearly here, Mr Mailer has shared five practical tips to help Australians achieve their 2023 resolutions.
1. Avoid big and vague, focus on specific.
One of the mistakes we make is to be too vague in our resolutions.
Saying we want to ‘get in shape’ or ‘get on top of our money’ is very hard for us to track, and does not provide a good starting point.
Break down big goals into one or two very specific behaviours that you will need to change.
This might be saving a certain percentage of your pay each payday or limiting online shopping to a set day each week, with a nominated weekly spending limit.
Where possible set up ways to track and measure these behaviours over time”
2. Create ‘if-this-then-that’ rules.
Behavioural science research has shown that follow-through rates can be higher when we are specific, not just about the goal itself, but how, when and where we plan to get there.
Rather than saying you will spend less on unnecessary items, you might say that on the first Sunday of each month, I will reserve 60 minutes between 3 p.m. and 4 p.m. to review and cancel any unwanted online subscriptions at my kitchen table.
This helps to anticipate any barriers to success and builds the right cues into our lives for our desired behaviours.

3. Build in incentives.
It can be easy on New Year’s Eve to think about all the big changes you will make in January, but it’s another thing when that time rolls around and we have to take the difficult or boring actions to make it happen.
One strategy that behavioural scientists consider is the use of commitment devices, or putting incentives in place to help your future self to follow through.
For example, you might agree with your partner, that you will do the dishes for a week every time you miss your monthly budget target!”
4. Disrupt your environment.
Habits experts show that one of the best times to start a new habit is at a time of change in our lives.
This could be moving house, changing jobs, or returning to a new work setup after summer break.
It is a chance to reset our environments and set new habits with new triggers, rewards and feedback.
Take advantage of the summer break, to shake up your 2022 work rituals.
You might plan for a new desk or commute close to the park rather than the shops, or a new project team that brings their lunch to work each day.

5. Willpower is not enough.
Another common mistake is that we rely too much on willpower when setting goals for the New Year.
Willpower can be great to help us get started, but often we can get overwhelmed when we’re exposed to temptations or when our internal autopilot takes over.
It’s important to capitalise on the strong willpower up front to set up systems around us that will help us to sustain good behaviours, like setting up auto-transfers on our savings, subscribing to a health food delivery service or disabling alerts on our social media accounts.