Evaluating your associations (part 2) | Jim Rohn

Last week we took a look at the power of influence in our lives and how it is possible to be nudged off course a little at a time until finally, we find ourselves asking, “How did I get here?”

We then asked three key questions:

1) “Who am I around?”  You’ve got to evaluate everybody who is able to influence you in any way.

2) “What are these associations doing to me?”  That’s a major question to ask.  puzzle team

What have they got me doing, listening to, reading, thinking and feeling?

You’ve got to make a serious study of how others are influencing you, both negatively and positively.

3) “Is that okay?”  Maybe everyone you associate with has been a positive, energizing influence.

Then again, maybe there are some bad apples in the bunch.  All I’m suggesting here is that you take a close and objective look.

Everything is worth a second look, especially the power of influence. Both will take you somewhere, but only one will take you in the direction you need to go.

This week we wanted to discuss three ways to handle associations or relationships that are holding you back.

1) Disassociate.

This is not an easy decision, nor something you should take lightly, but in some cases it may be essential (please don’t email me asking to advise you about this, only you can decide).

You may just have to make the hard choice not to let certain negative influences affect you any more. 

It could be a choice that preserves the quality of your life.

2) Limited association.

Spend major time with major influence and minor time with minor influences.

It is easy to do just the opposite, but don’t fall into that trap.

Take a look at your priorities and your values.

We have so little time at our disposal.

Wouldn’t it make sense to invest it wisely?

3) Expanding your associations.  

This is the one I suggest you focus on the most.

Find other successful people that you can spend more time with.

Invite them to lunch (pick up the tab) and ask them how they have achieved so much or what makes them successful.team work help puzzle group peer team

Now, this is not just about financial success, it can be someone that you want to learn from about having a better marriage, being a better parent, having better health or a stronger spiritual life.

It is called association on purpose – getting around the right people by expanding your circle of influence.

And when you do that, you will naturally limit the relationships that are holding you back.

Give it a try and see for yourself.

Want more of this type of information?

Jim Rohn


The late Jim Rohn was America's Foremost Business Philosopher. Subscribe to the free Jim Rohn Weekly E-zine. Also review the complete Jim Rohn archive of articles, vitamins for the mind and Q and A. Copyright © 1999 Jim Rohn International. All rights reserved worldwide.

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